The Drought

My once vibrant, exciting and at times adventurous sex life,


Now consists of a website.



How did I get here?

A Dick By Any Other Name..

Is still a dick.

To all the transgenders, post-ops, transsexuals, chicks-with-dicks, she-males, ladyboys, cross-dressers, transvestites, etc.,

If you feel you were born in the "wrong" body, this may very well be true.

It is said that some souls change their minds minutes before birth. They decide to complete their life's journey as the opposite of their originally chosen sex. Such last minute decisions don't work so well because by the time you're in the birth canal, the sex organs are formed. Girls are born with all of the eggs they will ever have, and boys are born with tools to create sperm.

It's kindof a done deal.

Despite the 'Transgender Mania' teachings of our present time, gender is not fluid.

Science clearly states that every DNA cell in the human body remains coded for our biological birth.

Sex reassignment surgery, with all of its advances, cannot change anyone’s sex.

At its simplest this means,

Removing or adding a penis doesn't determine sex.
Chromosomes do.

There's no pill, injection, etc., that can implant Womens' Intuition. Being a woman is a born divinity. Feminine cycles are connected to moons, and we bleed in time with their rhythms. Babies form and breathe under Motherskin. Surgery or no, men will never be able to get pregnant.

They can pretend though.

No artificial means can administer Womaness, no matter how badly someone wants it.

Ain't that right girlfriend?

Delving deeper into the arena of gender defining, is the belief that this new phenomenon is part of a larger agenda.

The “gender fluidity” debate is believed to be an artificially created propaganda set to blur the boundaries of gender, and to celebrate deviation from nature (as a great achievement).  The article  The Agenda Behind Bruce Jenner’s Transformation,  explained how Bruce Jenner’s very publicized sex change was part of this agenda. Furthermore, this urgent publicity surrounding transgenderism was to prepare the masses for upcoming global policy changes.

Months after Caitlyn came onto the scene, the mass media's propaganda evolved into laws and policies. From the “war of the bathrooms,” to the allowing of young children to undergo a sex change, modern society is shifting drastically towards new definitions of gender – a term considered binary since the beginning of time.

Camille Paglia, author, academic and social critic who's never shied away from controversy, explains how this is symptomatic of a wider cultural problem. In this video, she breaks down the implications of today’s transgender agenda. A lesbian and feminist, Paglia has always criticized the unrealistic constructs made in the name of “equality” and political correctness.

Many public figures who dare addressing these issues get promptly shamed and labeled “transphobic” and at times blackballed.  

We must remain aware that if mass media can turn something as clear and defined as a person’s gender into a tornado of confusion, it can redefine anything else to fit its needs.

However, there is a way to avoid falling into these traps and achieving the ultimate in freedom.

Love the skin you're in. 

-WTS.


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10 Ways To Take Your Sex Toys on a Plane.. and NOT Get Embarrased

I recently went on a trip to Atlanta. I was going for a week, and no-boyfriend-haver that I am, wanted to take my pleasure stick with me.

Then I thought about the TSA, x-ray conveyor belts, potential asshole TSA agents, shocked on-lookers, and decided to leave my plastic love machine at home.

And let me tell ya, it was missed.

Fired up, I wondered why I should have to be without some battery operated lovin because of what I feared the TSA would do. Why should I worry about looky-loos staring, laughing, gasping at my inanimate love slave?

NO! I wasn't going to let that fly anymore. (Pun intended).

Surely there was a way I could carry it on so I could carry on at my hotel.

In typical ME fashion, I got to researchin'. I found some practical and non-embarrassing actions to take when one wants to bring aboard sex toys without bringing on embarrassment.


1) Remove the Batteries:  

Rule numero UNO! A bag that's buzzing will definitely be opened and searched by security, so take the batteries out before you pack it. This voids any chance of your toy going off en route. I had a friend who vibrators you had to plug in to a socket but then again, my friend was in the big leagues. She was a vibrator All-Star. I didn't know if she was trying to have a good time or simulate being in labor, but I digress.

2) Pack Your Item In A See-Through Plastic Bag

In the event that your baggage gets searched, you don’t want a customs officer handling your intimate buddy with any nasty customs officered hands, so pack your toy in a clear plastic bag. – They x-ray machine can see what’s inside and it’s a hygienic storage option when you’re on-the-go. This leads us to # 3.

3) Attach a Note

Now that you've packed your orgasmer in a plastic bag, you could take it a step further by including a note. You can also use a photo its original packaging in case there's any mistaken identity. The disco-stick can speak for itself when the (big) letters can be read through the x-ray machine. Nothing says vibrator, quite like a note that says "VIBRATOR." Or if you want to keep it classy, use the term "personal massager." 

You won't be fooling anyone though..heh heh.

4) Keep It Small

This might be a tall order for some, but remember: We're trying to avoid embarrassment here. When it comes to restrictions on items for air travel, the TSA states that “tools” with a length of 7 inches are suitable for carry-on luggage. This means that petite, discreet massagers are the safest bets. 

The plug-in, baby head sized gear my friend had might have to wait for a road trip. Maybe you'll like one of these: Discreet Sex Toys for Travel 

5) Be Honest 

If an airport security agent asks you what’s in your bag, or has you explain an item on the x-ray display; tell it to them the truth. This will save you being pulled aside for further questioning and could help avoid any unnecessary rummaging through your bag. Although traveling with sex toys is completely legal in the US, you may still encounter TSA officials whose conduct toward you may be rude or unprofessional. If this happens at a security screening area, request to speak with a supervisor. You can submit a formal complaint or email the TSA's Contact Center at TSA-ContactCenter@dhs.gov.

If you believe you've been the target of discriminatory conduct you can file a complaint at Don't Fuck With Me.

6) Bring a Toy That Doesn't Look Like A Sex Toy

Bringing a toy that doesn’t look like a sex toy is not to trick the TSA. It's ultimately the electronics inside the toy that ping their radars so they'll know. A disguised toy is good because it won’t call attention from nosey nearby travelers. The last thing you need is your ordeal recorded on someones phone. Facebook, Youtube, Worldstar.. I've never met anyone who wanted to be famous because they had a dildo in their bag. One way to prevent the threat of this is #7.

7) Ask To Be Screened In Private

This is a great option if you're truly apprehensive about having having your device taken out in public. Getting through security may take a bit longer, but the risk of embarrassment in front of other travelers is decreased drastically if not eliminated completely.

8) Don't Pack it in Your Carry On

If you have a bag you're checking, pack it there. And again, take out the batteries! If you think taking out a buzzing vibrator at the security check point is bad, imagine being pulled off a plane because they think your buzzing bag may be a bomb. It sounds extreme but it could happen.

9) Leave it Home

The only way to be 100% sure that you won't be stopped or embarrassed by carrying a personal toy aboard your flight is to leave it at home. You can always buy an inexpensive vibrating apparatus at any local drug store, usually in the condom section. I know it may not be the trusty companion you're used to, but they can do the trick. Being away from home AND going through TSA?

Not the best time to be a dildo-snob, yes?

10) Know if Sex-Toys Are Allowed at Your Destination 

Believe it or not, sex toys aren’t accepted in every place on the globe. Some countries and regions have bans on your little buzzing buddy, like India, the United Arab Emirates and Saudi Arabia — even some US States. If you’re not sure if your destination allows sex toys, do your research. 'Better safe than sorry' is just a Google search away, and can save you a whole lot of trouble.

List of Countries That Don't Allow Sex-Toys

Be especially careful if you're a man travelling with these toys. Being gay is illegal in many parts of the world. Toys are supposed to provide fun, not jail time, and certainly not a beat down from homophobic law enforcement. If you're not a gay man, international officials may think you are by having these items so again, be cautious.

I hope this list helps you feel more at ease taking your good time tools with you. Traveling with your toys can be fuss-free, and once you arrive at your destination, can make it easier to relax and enjoy being in a new place.

Travel safe.
Travel smart.

WTS.

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For Shits and Giggles

10 Things Men Wish Women Knew About Sex

Hello Readers. Happy New Year my loves. There are many "What men want" lists out there, but you know me. I take what I post very seriously (because YOU'LL be reading it), so I did my own research on this article before posting. The consensus amongst my guy friends is that the 10 things listed here are very accurate.


Freud called female sexuality “the dark continent”; if that’s true, male sexuality could qualify as the dark planet. But when it comes to sex, guys are simple, right? Not true. The bedroom is one of the great stages of male performance, and as such, what you see and hear is typically the role, not the reality. It’s no wonder, in trying to please the actor, a woman loses sight of a guy’s true identity. Here are 10 “unmasking” facts you may want to know:

1. We Respond to Praise 

It’s believed that men are so consumed by our libido that we have no self-consciousness surrounding sex. But men are no different from women when it comes to compliments as catalysts for sexual confidence. This praise can be delivered before reaching the bedroom (give us the once-over and tell us how buff we look), and after (give us the once-over and tell us how buff we look naked). Along those lines, men worry about the size of their guts (and other measurable organs), their hair (or lack thereof) and other attributes. Try to be extra affirming about those sensitivities.

2. We Fear Intimacy..

..but not for the reason you think! Studies have shown that boys are more affectionate, even more expressive, than girls until they reach school age. At that time, social repression begins—of words, thoughts, feelings—and our desire for human connection goes underground. So taboo is this desire for intimacy that its possibility can terrify men—not because it’s smothering, but because we realize how desperate we are for it. What’s a woman to do? First, understand that your guy’s hasty retreat post-sex may be about his own shock at how much he craves a connection with you (and how much he’s denied it in life). Then, retreat a little yourself. This gives him time to see that his boyhood habits are, in fact, perfectly manly.

3. We Appreciate Sex for Sex’s Sake

Having said that about intimacy, sometimes a little “throw-me-down sex” is the right medicine. According to Joe Kort, PhD, a psychotherapist and sexologist, “Men want their wives to enjoy raw sex, not just endure it or take it personally. For men, it’s not about dominating a woman, but ravishing her.” On occasion, try letting him ravish you.

4. We Are Not Just Our.. 

The penis gets all the press, but men have “many erogenous zones,” says psychologist Melodie Schaefer, PsyD. “Men tend not to correct women because they’re afraid women will shut down and not touch them at all. But there are many places a woman should touch.” Like the chest, the inner thighs and face. Two other key areas: Gently gripping a man’s testicles can be a real turn-on, as it blends control with release. Also, stimulating the perineum, the area between the scrotum and anus, will heighten pleasure during oral sex.

5. We Encourage Fantasies

“Men want to share their fantasies but worry their wives will shame or judge them,” says Dr. Kort. Similarly, Dr. Schaefer reports that men wish women would reveal their imaginings. Want to open yourself to these possibilities? Try making a game of it. First, and most important, promise not to judge the other; then, privately write out scenarios that have tantalized you and place them in a box. When you are next intimate, pull one out. If you’re both comfortable, give it a shot. If not, Dr. Kort recommends asking the author a key question: What about this fantasy do you like? Sometimes, its themes can be addressed in different, more comfortable scenarios.

6. We Like It When You Talk

Talking during sex stimulates more than our ears. What kind of talk? Dirty, praising and instructive are great starts. As amusing as it may sound, a woman’s words can make a guy feel as potent and virile as a Roman gladiator, even if he’s a suburban banker.

7. We Need Your Honesty

Sex can solve the stresses of a relationship, but it’s often where the stresses show up. If we complain
about a lack of sex (or your doing certain things only on our birthday), we may be overlooking serious issues that underpin such withholding. We need you to enlighten us. The male ego is often tied to sex, so it’s easy for us to dismiss bedroom problems as female disinterest rather than issues we have a part in. Avoiding these problems, however, only perpetuates your feeling unseen and our frustration.

8. We Enjoy the Dance

Men like a good quest; unfortunately, these days, there are so few. But romance earns that distinction. Allow us to court you; make us deserve your desire. Dr. Kort makes an additional point: “Emotional intimacy is about closeness, but sustaining sexual desire demands a certain amount of distance.” How do couples strike this tricky balance? By allowing each partner to have what he calls “separate sexuality”: a sexual life that doesn’t include, but doesn’t betray, the other. “For him, that might mean allowing his wife to use toys or letting other men look at her; for her, it might be permitting him to watch pornography in order to experience a fantasy.” Such indulgences help maintain the balance of desire and devotion for both parties.

9. We Can Explain Pornography

Finding a spouse using pornography is a top reason couples seek counsel, says Dr. Kort, but it
shouldn’t be overreacted to or pathologized. A few things to clear up: 1. Sex addicts represent only 4 percent of the population, so it’s unlikely your man is one. 2. Because childhood experiences influence sexuality as an adult, people are very idiosyncratic about what turns them on. In other words, says Dr. Kort, “no woman can, nor should she, be everything to a man.” Still, the question remains: How does a woman not take pornography personally? First, determine if your mate is compulsive, or can only have sex, with pornography. If so, you may want to seek counseling. If not, Dr. Kort recommends taking the secrecy out of pornography by discussing it. Use the lens of “what about it turns him on versus what turns you off.” That way, a dialogue is created that allows for honesty, dignity and closeness.

10. We Always Need It, But Not for the Reason You Think

Men are accused of being sexually insatiable, but women should rethink this. “Men see sex as a celebration,” says Dr. Schaefer. “They wish women would take more of a ‘carpe diem’ approach to it. We move through life at the speed of sound, with multiplying challenges and pressures. It’s easy to allow demands on our time and energy to rob us of the joy, pleasure and opportunity that sex affords us. On the long list of priorities, it should not be on the bottom rung.” If that doesn’t make you want to “seize the day” (or something else), consider the health benefits: Orgasms release oxytocin, which has been called the “bonding hormone,” bringing couples closer together while it alleviates anxiety and stress, reduces blood pressure and promotes healing.

If none of these tips help, you can always read this book. The reviews are pretty positive.

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Pardon Me, But I Do Not Have That Look..

Nope, you're wrong Scarface.

It only FEELS like a year.


And don't talk to me like that.


#notenoughsex #nopushymen

Happy Friday!

Hello my beautiful readers! I've been neglecting you and I miss you. So many things going on. I went on vacation and kayaked.

Yeah, I'm big time like that. :P

I'm currently working on a post explaining why men kill their wives.

Fun stuff huh?

I'm also seeking contributing writers who want to add their own spices to the blog. If you want to do something other than just READ this bad baby, or know someone who believes patriarchy is the devil and can add a intelligent and feisty opinion, leave an email addy where you/they can be reached in the comments.

Happy Friday you sexy mofos.. Muah!

Happy Friday

May all my lovely ladies out there get laid this weekend..

Unlike her.


Happy Friday.

Me Tarzan, You..Wait, Who You Again?

How Male Sexual Entitlement Hurts Everyone

Male Sexual Entitlement (MSE): The belief that men are owed sex on account of their maleness.

Rape Culture: The belief that sex without consent is OK (within certain circumstances).

Slut Shaming: To degrade or mock a woman because she enjoys having sex, has sex a lot, or may even just be rumored to participate in sexual activity.

Overvaluing of Male Sexuality: The belief that female sexuality exists specifically for male pleasure; the feeling of entitlement to women’s bodies.

No male sexual entitlement = No rape culture.

Bring back our girls? If men were properly sexually educated, (on subconscious levels especially), there would be no need to bring back our girls because no one would think it acceptable for a woman to be a sex slave. Nor would anyone think it natural to force a woman into marriage.

Why Does Sexual Entitlement Happen?

We've all been conditioned to think female objectification is normal. It’s embedded in the way promiscuous men are idolized while promiscuous women get called sluts.

“Conscious” men may think that playing to women’s emotional needs exempts them from acting in a sexually entitled way, but this isn't true.

Even the most sensitive of men may not see how they participate in MSE. Some men think being sensitive to women’s issues gives them a dating edge.

Where Does Sexual Entitlement Show Up?

In intimate relationships when one partner tries to coerce the other into sex. Some believe that it's a girlfriend or wife’s duty to sleep with her with her partner, even if she doesn't want to. Marital rape only became criminal in all 50 states as recently as 1993.

At work in the form of sexual harassment. Often times, when a sexual harassment law suit is covered in the media, people slut-shame the victim:

"She was asking for it with the way she dressed.."

Rarely are there comments about her being made to feel unsafe in (what's supposed to be) a professional setting.

Toward complete strangers. Guys who touch random women in clubs, men who catcall women as they walk by and men who feel women should be instantly flattered by a compliment.

Such people act like it's their right to look at, comment on, evaluate and use women’s bodies.

How Male Sexual Entitlement Hurts Women

Sexually entitled men may feel it’s their right to leer, make unwanted advances and/or inappropriately touch women. 

Sexual harassment, street harassment, sexually motivated stalking and slut-shaming are all effects of MSE that not only affect women, but can scare them. Guys who take MSE to the extreme believe that women owe them sexual favors in exchange for attention, aggressiveness, or just plain existing.

These men also feel sexually entitled because they think being nice is synonymous with being good. They may be helpful but with an agenda. Pretending to be a decent human being to get sex makes you a creep. Synonyms be damned.

Men who adopt the “I’m nice, do me” attitude help perpetuate the idea that sex is reward, not an act of intimacy between two people. Sex isn’t a reward for good behavior, chivalry, or niceties.

Period.

How Male Sexual Entitlement Hurts Men

Instead of relaxing when they get rejected, their egos get wounded. Someone has denied them what they believe is their right and now they have to choose how to react to it.

Many men learn to be ok with not getting what they want sexually. Some can enjoy just being friends with women, even if they were initially sexually interested in them.

MSE can create a fear of rape for women. Men who react badly to being denied sex can become a part of and reinforce rape culture. Some turn to misogyny to avoid feelings of vulnerability.

The majority of entitled men may not consciously promote a permissive attitude toward rape. They may not all be angry misogynists. They're accountable for the way they treat others, but are also a product of a society that constantly bombards them with images of women as objects for consumption.

We need to focus on both changing our cultural attitudes of entitlement, and model healthier ways of relating to women we’re sexually interested in.

How Can You Avoid Feeling Entitled?

In short, check yourself. If at any point in time you believe you are owed sex for any reason —including being a decent human being — you are thinking in terms of sexual entitlement.

Also, avoid viewing a woman’s role in sex as totally passive. Though women are traditionally stereotyped as having absent or mysterious sexualities, that's a lie. Women have orgasms, horniness, sexual fantasies, everything a man has in terms of sexual desires.

If you’re in a relationship or talking to someone you’re interested in, communicate. This keeps you aware of boundaries, and you can make a space to talk about your desires without demanding that they be fulfilled.

Because sexual entitlement is so normalized, even guys who care about respecting women can be guilty of it. Women can also enable it by passively supporting it or actively participating in this thinking and behavior. Both men and women need to check themselves around this.

WTS

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And countless caveman cartoons..

Of Men.. And Magnums.

The Latin root Mag- means "great, large."

When it comes condoms, men love to use Magnums, especially if they think they need them.
The makers of Magnums are marketing geniuses. The "big" they design for however, are egos.

Ego boost = Profit boost.

Men put on these "larger" sized condoms and feel like..

The REAL truth is..

And it's a heartbreaking truth..

A truth most men won't want to know..

Just warning ya..

Ready?

MAGNUMS AREN'T BIG.

In fact, they're basically the same size as any other condom, 

designed to fit the average sized penis.

The reason this "large penis" marketing ploy is able to work so well, is that in addition to men wanting to believe they have a big one, most men simply don't know what "average sized" is.

According to Trojan’s Head of Marketing, Jim Daniels, stated that “People are proud to show they have a Magnum condom — the large size really connotes a sense of ‘above-average prowess,’ let’s call it.”

Exactly. Men prefer Magnums not necessarily because their mondo-dondo boner spills out of other condoms, but because "Magnum" implies Ginormous.

It's all a head game fellas. (Pun absolutely intended).

Even the name 'Magnum' is a subconscious tool.

They're basically calling your lovestick a gun.

The thing is, some guns shoot..


Blanks.

But not all of course :)

There is an even bigger downside to buying condoms that are too big. Nevermind the fact that your dick doesn't need it's own room, but safety can be compromised. According to an anonymous college campus professional:

"We stopped carrying magnums at my school's student health center (and instead carry a differently branded larger condom for those who need it) because "magnum" holds such cache...
we would always run out of them, and they'd inevitably turn up in some poor freshman girl's vaginal canal. (I'm not kidding—there was a rash of 'lost condoms' last year among the freshmen)."

So basically, when you wear a condom that's too big, you risk it slipping off. The second sucky thing (puns all around huh?) is that it may be challenging for her to get it out when it slips off. No bueno!

Planned Parenthood confirmed:

"..Condom size — too large or too small — is a serious factor in its effectiveness. "If a condom is too big it can slip off, and that can decrease its effectiveness, "It is true that sizing is important."

So be honest with yourselves men. If you don't need the Hulk sized condom don't buy it. If she's boned you more than 3 times chances are you're a keeper. Better to have a condom that fits the size that you are, not the size you wish to someday be.

Condoms aren't jeans.

There are many ways to getting a bigger dick. None of those ways however, come in a box of 12.

Just sayin.

-WTS.


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