If you are a man, you might not like this post. The truth can be a hard pill to swallow. With that being said, let's continue..
Ladies, lemme tell ya. I've dated lots of men. LOTS O'Them. And one thing I can assure you on, is the Rule of 40 is a true one. I cannot call my self the 'Man Master,' meaning, there's always room to learn more. However, The Rule of 40 is one I promise you can count on.
If you meet a man who falls in this category, don't walk.
RUN.
Something is wrong with him and you will waste your valuable time. Leave him alone once you see he qualifies for the Rule.
Men, if you feel you meet the criteria, make an appointment with a therapist STAT. Call your mother, do some guided imagery, access repressed memories, whatever it takes to get clear.
Or,
Remain a single, skirt chasing, unfulfilled and shallow patheticist for the rest of your life. You may not think so but chasing ass gets old. At some point, even the slickest Lothario wants intimacy and love.
The kind of love that doesn't search in the middle of the night for her panties, and leaves you while you sleep.
Change your ways, or go ahead and be the old guy in the club.
We won't laugh..
In your face anyway.
Ladies-n-gents,
The RULE OF 40:
If you are a MAN.
40 yrs of age and up.
Have no wife.
No ex-wife. (a woman you LOVED, not married out of convenience).
No current girlfriend. (as in ONE, not a harem).
No children (by a woman you were WITH).
No relationships that lasted more than 5 years..
It's red flag time.
NO MAN can be without a mate for long, gay or straight. The fact that you are STILL alone means no woman, no matter how much she tries to settle, can put up with your issues. You may not be a bad guy, but you have some inner work to do.
This is not mere guessing. I have studied this and know it to be true. The "red flags" my studies have shown, are usually from extreme immaturity, a severe lack of emotional development, anger issues with the mother, fear of commitment due to deep seated insecurity, a dangerous narcissism and/or..
The worst of all..
You ready?
You have an abnormally small penis and/or you're a terrible lover.
Happy Friday.
WTS I need your advice:
ReplyDeleteLet me tell you about me and since this is anonymous I can be straight out honest.
I’m 6’1 350 I lost 25LB (trying to lose an additional hundred). I make between 85- 95k and I’m 37. I have a 6.5 inch penis that’s 2.5 inches thick (recently measured from where the balls end to where the tip of the penis).Additionally. Only 20% of all men, black or whatever has a penis bigger than 5inches per Google, Wikipedia, and web MD. My member is like me. It might not be the tallest but It still gets attention. Now back to the issue at hand. I love my ex. However, I suck at communication cause sometimes what I say is not what I mean. Sometime I could say things different ly. It’s really my pride. However, I am honest. We both sucked at communicating with each other. Lets be real that was on me. I get defensive real quick.
More about me, I’m a great man. I made sure that she was always taken care of despite having a girl that did not want sex from me. Look physically, she has flaws like everyone else but she’s a beautiful woman. Some men straight drooled after her. Not me, it’s funny to say but I never had that carnal lust for her. My friend’s are like I need my eyes check because shes stunningly beautiful. However, I wasn’t attracted to her like that. Stupid me, I use to tell her that all the time. Sometimes I could talk my self out of some loving. Shrew, common sense for me is not common for me. This was never a physical relationship or about liking each other physically. I think that’s true from both sides. There are parts of her that I do love. Her smile, her dimples, her pretty feet, and she gained an ass. She just didn’t do it for me physically overall. I never lusted after her. However, I know that love is more that anything physical. I loved her for her. Shes been to the wars suffered collateral damage, she fights her demons every once in a while. She constantly deals with things. She finally calmed down to a normal level. she use to be so angry. Despite all of that emotional bombardment of issues, I had her back through thick and thin. I put my heart, soul, money, and time. Nevertheless, she hated sex with me. It was an easy fixed. We rarely talked about sex and we didn’t have sex for 3 years. I still stuck it out with her. I was faithful, had her back, had always tried to make her smile. So we could have had a better sex life if she wanted to. Its impossible for you to get the full amount doggie style. A big stomach with a big but shortens the amount of inches inputted Real talk. Let me put your legs behind your head and put a pillow under that ass and you will get all 6 plus inches plus the girth. However, she never gave me that opportunity. I eat the pussy great but I cant get really into it with cerran wrap that shit almost choked me. We could have truly worked on our sex life but she hated fat people. Eventhough, I was a big guy when we met. I will confess this sexually she made me nervous. I could never get a true erection only when she gave me head. I was scared to touch her. This only happened once before with another breath takingly beautiful woman. However, once the nervousness wore off , the sex was great cause we talked and worked around the stomach issues, along with pratice. You meet a man who just loves you for you. A man who has never let you down through thick and thin has always had your back. His has a great heart with the truest of intentions. He wants to marry you and spend the rest of his life with you. He has a great character. He respects you and treasures you. You will take of you. You trust him. He’s loyal and faithful. He sacrifice his financial opportunities to make sure financially you were good. He has his issues like everyone else. However, he puts you before him in most ways. Why wouldn’t you try to work out the intimacy issue?