A Hard to Get Man? Doesn't EXIST..

When a woman plays hard to get with a man, it's because she likes him. Like the proverbial 'dropping of the hanky', she gives him an opportunity to show he's interested by allowing him to pursue her (i.e., no rejection). How long and how sweetly he chases her, can demonstrate just how deep his interest lies. Plus, men like the hunt so why not?

HOWEVER,

When a MAN plays hard to get,

IT MEANS HE ISN'T AVAILABLE.

Whether he's in a relationship, or just doesn't like you enough, if a man wants to get with you, HE WILL. PERIOD. No waiting, no debating,

Just dating.

Then MATING :-)

And if he isn't trying to have sex with you, especially after a while, BE OUT. That's a reg flag right there. And don't fall for that "he's waiting because he respects me" gibberish. This ain't "Happy Days." A man can still respect you after sex, and if he's a man of any type of value or worth, sex will only make him want you more, not less. Don't make any excuses for why he isn't pursuing you. If his penis isn't chasing you, how could you think his heart is? If it's for a date or simply doing the do..

There's no such thing as a 'hard to get' man. If he is not giving you the same energy you're giving him, MOVE ON.

And if the guy's not interested in dating you, who cares? He's probably some closeted weirdo, secretly taking pictures of his ass when he's lonely..

And you don't want to date THAT now do you??

Didn't think so. Keep it moving ladies.. :-) Love you!